FATHER AND DAUGHTER

Father is the first man in daughter life. A figure of a father represent the figure of a man in common. The characters of a father influence his daughter emotionally.

Is there a perfect father?

There’s no perfect father because no body is perfect. There are daughters who never meet their father. There are daughters who get many wounds emotionally because of their father deed. There are daughters who doesn’t get proper attention from their father.There are daughters who have warm loving care from their father.

There’s a woman whom i ever met said,” I saw my father have an affair since i was 13 years old. My mother knows it but she can not do anything. I don’t have a good communication with my brothers. They are egoistic. And, my relationship with men always ended. Now, I only have a relationship with a woman.”

There’s a woman whom i ever met said,” My father is a member of a church choir. But, since I was a child, I saw him hurt my mother physically. I was sad and cried when I saw him hurt my mother. I had better went to club than seeing it”

There are some women who drop on drugs, free sex and prostitution. For some of them, the first thing they complain is about their fathers behavior. They questioned, ”Did you ever love me, Dad?”

Fatherless Country

There’s a mother day in Indonesia , there’s also a father day in western countries. But, there’s no father day in Indonesia . I don’t know why???

My father for me.

I don’t communicate intensively with my father, but one thing that I will always remember, that is my father advice. When I was 16 years old, my father ever said, ”You may have relationship with any man but don’t ever sleep with him before he marry you! If you break this, you are not my daughter anymore and Get out of my house!”

I know people will think that my father is too strict, so interfering, old fashioned, etc. But, I know he said that because I’m precious for him.

We can not choose in what family we will be born and we can not choose who will be our father. Is he a good man or no? Whatever our father, whatever he do, accept him whatever he is because there’s no ex – father, there are only ex- boy and ex-girl. When we never see a good father in our life, we can see Our Father. He is the Father who always care for us and he has never ended love for us.

The messages for all fathers

You will eat the fruit of your labor;
blessings and prosperity will be yours.
³ Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
around your table.
⁴ Yes, this will be the blessing
for the man who fears the LORD.(Psalm 128 : 2-4)

Fathers,^[a] do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. ( colossians 3:21)

Happy Fathers day!

Nova

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